Strategies for achieving short and long term goals explained (Steps, Order, Achievements)

Working hard to pass my course

Managing my time well in order to give me time to do other things . .

Wheel of Life Categories	Needs Improving Why?	Needs Not Improving Why?	What can you do to improve areas of your Wheel of Life.
Career	Yes – increasing my knowledge in computers will enable me to enter the graphical and visual effects in the film industry.	No	Pass all my subjects with at least a reasonable over the edge pass .
Family Life	Will need a social companion at this point. And communication between family members may need improvement.		Spend quality family time with family members and understand each others emotions since we have been distanced for more than 5years
Friends & Socialising	Need to spend more time with friends and make more friends		I could be more vocal and approach people more often , which I do and it seems to be working .
Rest & Relaxation	I could allocate more time for sleeping and watching movies to relax my brain and Improve my brains functionality .		Better time management may leave me with enough time to do the things necessary in my life balance .
Health & Fitness	I could do with more exercise at lleast once a week , though dieting seems to have been working .		I could still lose about 5 kg to reach the ideal BMI
Spirituality	I more or less balanced in this area but will need to become serious about my catholic religion
Personal Growth	I would need to acquire personal assets.
Money	I will need to get a job and thus reduce the financial barrier on others .I am good at budgeting so I am sure I will be able to do this easily .

Reaching My Goals

Reasons for NOT Reaching Goals	Definition	Personal Example
Unrealistic	A goal you want but not realistic within the time frame. (Want Vs Time)	Getting a car by 21
Didn’t want the goal	Unless you are emotionally attached to the goal you wont achieve it. (Emotional Attachment)	A diploma in Business Administration.
Other stuff got in the way	Other choices were chosen. (Lifestyle Choices)	Great passes at A level , was over confident since I had done it before .
Other stuff got in the way	Other constraints were pressured on you. (Pressured Demands)	Starting my own business at 21 , and a lot of obstacles got into the way .

My ultimate goal is to make a difference in the world and gain recognition for something significant . I would like to design something that has never been seen

Or thought of , which is very easy , as thinking creatively is not so difficult, but the challenge would be alot of intelligent people out there that may be more technologically exposed and making my dream materialise .I would also like to publish my work which I am currently

Working on . I do believe this is possible . My goal in the next ten years or less would

Be well known for my ideas and my contribution to the visual world and the effect it will have upon people .

Lack of confidence and dedication to personal goals, due to being sidetracked by non beneficial activities.

I feel confident when with friends rather than with family .

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What you don’t like doing due to lack of confidence?	Rewrite it in a positive way.	Would you try the post-it-note strategy? Do you think it would work for you?
I feel shy when walking past a group of people and often feel like am going to fall	I feel great walking past a group of people .	Yes because I would have a daily reminder that says I can do it .
I lose the ability to speak effectively	I love speaking and am able to communicate well.	Yes because eventually I will overcome my fear .
Dancing in public	I love dancing , people love to see me dance	Yes because it will boost my confidence in ballroom dancing .